{"id":544,"date":"2013-12-26T14:35:59","date_gmt":"2013-12-26T13:35:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/?p=544"},"modified":"2013-12-26T14:35:59","modified_gmt":"2013-12-26T13:35:59","slug":"holiday-season-finally","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/?p=544","title":{"rendered":"Holiday season &#8230;&#8230;. finally&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After some busy months, more busy than I prefer, it is finally time again to put some ideas on paper,\u00a0 in this case a blog post.<br \/>\nLet me start with something more personal: this week I suddenly got a heavy parcel delivered and when I opened it, it was a fantastic book called: \u201cDer Rosenfl\u00fcsterer\u201d, or \u201cThe Rose Whisperer, written by a friend of mine, Prof. Kasimir Magyar, who is one of the world\u2019s experts on fragrant roses. He has a beautiful rose garden with more than 300 different kinds of roses and decided to write this book about this. Beautiful pictures and detailed descriptions of his choice of roses and where they came from originally, from China or from Europe. One can research this from the composition of the smell of the rose! Roses that originally came from China have different compounds that create their smell than the roses from Europe. A wonderful gift to start my holidays.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/?attachment_id=545\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-545\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-545\" alt=\"EN_9783777421599_30_CBILD_1\" src=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/EN_9783777421599_30_CBILD_1.jpg\" width=\"172\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nLast week was our National Coaching Congress, organised by NLCoach, an organization of which I am one of the founders. My workshop-subject was: \u201cPerformance under pressure\u201d, to transfer the lessons I learned through my work with Special Forces, to the world of sports.<br \/>\nJust before I was able to have a very rare interview with two Special Forces operators about teambuilding, trust, leadership, training, stress, etc.\u00a0 Two \u201cterrorists\u201d stormed into the hall and took the more than\u00a0 200 coaches and myself as \u201chostages\u201d , but fortunately a Special Forces team that was in the vicinity came to action and solved the situation\u00a0 after which I could start the interview.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_549\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-549\" style=\"width: 270px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/?attachment_id=549\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-549\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-549 \" alt=\"National Coaches Congress\" src=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-145-300x200.jpg\" width=\"270\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-145-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-145-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 270px) 100vw, 270px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-549\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">National Coaches Congress<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_546\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-546\" style=\"width: 270px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-28.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-546  \" alt=\"&quot;Taking hostage&quot;\" src=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-28-300x154.jpg\" width=\"270\" height=\"139\" srcset=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-28-300x154.jpg 300w, https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-28-1024x528.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 270px) 100vw, 270px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-546\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8220;Taken hostage&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_547\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-547\" style=\"width: 270px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/?attachment_id=547\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-547\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-547 \" alt=\"SF in action\" src=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-30-300x159.jpg\" width=\"270\" height=\"143\" srcset=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-30-300x159.jpg 300w, https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-30-1024x545.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 270px) 100vw, 270px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-547\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">SF in action<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_548\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-548\" style=\"width: 270px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/?attachment_id=548\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-548\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-548 \" alt=\"rare public interview with two SF operators\" src=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-37-300x188.jpg\" width=\"270\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-37-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/helpingthebesttogetbetter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/bhNLcoachcongres-37-1024x642.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 270px) 100vw, 270px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-548\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Rare public interview with two SF operators<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>All the coaches I spoke to thought it was spectacular and an eye opener about how SF operators think and train, which in my opinion is a lot better and more professional\u00a0 than in so called professional or Olympic sports!<\/p>\n<p>Two weeks ago I visited Norway to lecture. I discovered\u00a0 that Norway is a strange country where reality is viewed in another way, somewhat distorted. Norway seems to be inhabited by a special human species that regards itself as being superior to the rest of Europe and the rest of the world.<br \/>\nWhy? Because it is in their culture, they say, they have a strong sense of fair play, honesty, where other humans supposedly are seriously lacking this.\u00a0 Where this comes from? Nobody can tell me, since the other thing they are very proud of, is their Viking heritage, and as far as I can remember, Vikings were very good in butchering, looting and raping other human beings.<br \/>\nAnother flaw of this self-declared superiority is the notorious and purposeless Norwegian killing of the mink whale.\u00a0 Norway is one of the few countries in the world that is actively decreasing the population of whales, one of the most\u00a0 harmless and helpless species on this planet.\u00a0 There is no economic incentive in doing this nor any scientific purpose. Lots of their excess whale meat is sold to Japan for consumption.<br \/>\nConveniently ignoring these facts or even defending these activities, this attitude also seems\u00a0 to have extended into Norwegian sports. Where Norwegian sports is quick to point fingers at others as far as doping is concerned, they conveniently forget to look into the mirror. For them it\u2019s simple: if a Norwegian wins, it is thanks to their hard work and flawless attitude, but if they lose to somebody else there must be drugs involved! LOL.<br \/>\nBut let us have a look at reality of sports in Norway:\u00a0 a man called Svein-Arne\u00a0 Hansen, the meet-organizer of the Oslo track meet and now a fanatic anti-doping crusader, once in small company boasted that he badly wanted an athlete to participate in his meet, but that this athlete had a demand: no doping test.\u00a0 Mr. Hansen, proudly told us that he found a way out by filling the testing bottle himself. Don\u2019t worry, I have date, time place and witnesses ready.\u00a0 Interesting that he now is a fond anti-doping crusader, isn\u2019t it?\u00a0 And this is my problem with this issue. Most of the time the people that present themselves as the strongest opponents of doping use have something to hide themselves.<br \/>\nNow looking at it better: Norway\u2019s doping sheet isn\u2019t as clean as they think themselves.<br \/>\nAlready in the nineteen-nineties, Norway\u2019s\u00a0 javelin throwing darling Trine Hattestad had a positive doping test that strange enough turned negative all of a sudden.<br \/>\nNorwegian sprinter Aham Okeke tested positive twice and also their recent sprint star Ndure tested positive on doping.<br \/>\nBut there is more, even the best known athletes of Norway\u00a0 the cyclist Thor Huskovd, world champion road cycling in 2010,\u00a0 and speed skater Johann Olav Koss have a doubtful history, to say the least. Huskovds cycling colleague Michael Rasmussen stated more than once that Huskovd escaped doping controls at least twice.\u00a0 Rasmussen had spoken the truth before, since his revelations about the doping use of his ex-colleague Kjaergaard forced the latter to resign. Kjaergaard until that moment was the team chief of the Norwegian Cycling Federation.<br \/>\nThe nicest example of the Norwegian hypocrisy could be Johann Olav Koss.\u00a0 You might know that speed skating is basically one of Holland\u2019s national sports. Well, Johann Olav Koss could barely beat any of the Dutch speed skaters until the Olympics in his own country in 1994, where he humiliated the best Dutch speed skaters. Of course this was hailed as being another example of Norwegian clean sports and superior mentality, but here is the surprise &#8230;.. later on, a photograph appeared on which Koss was seen together with Francesco Conconi, the sports doctor, who even made it to the IOC Medical Committee, but in reality was helping endurance athletes to boost their performance with doping like EPO. Of course Norway denied again.<br \/>\nI would not have problem with this\u00a0 if Norway did not have the bad habit of strongly pointing their fingers at all other countries and athletes. Again it proves to be true: doping is what the others do. It is time for Norwegian sports to wake up from their dream of misplaced moral superiority and face the truth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After some busy months, more busy than I prefer, it is finally time again to put some ideas on paper,\u00a0 in this case a blog post. 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